If you have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or suspect that you have it please take care if you choose to read any of my posts/articles that are written for Family Members, loved ones, or relationships partners (non borderlines) of those with BPD.
Everything that I have written here and/or will post here that is aimed at and written for non borderlines will be put in the Non Borderline Category. Either the title of the article/post will make it clear that it is for Nons or I have added the word "Nons" at the end of the title. The other thing you can do if you want to be careful is to click on a post and before reading it, scroll down to the bottom, just under each post there is a notation of which category it was posted to. So, if you don't want to read posts aimed at Non Borderlines and you see that a post was put in the Non Borderline category you can just click on any other category to then decide what you do want to read.
Everything else in all other categories is meant for both those with BPD and/or those who are non borderline to read.
If you have BPD and you choose to read what I write to and for non borderlines please make sure you are ready for that point of view and please take care of yourselves. If you find yourself feeling upset or triggered or invalidated in any way please stop reading and make sure that you only read what I have written here for you, those diagnosed with BPD.
Please also understand that I do not, in anyway, mean any disrespect to those with BPD. However, just as you, are in pain and have challenges so too are those in your life, depending upon individual circumstances, in pain and facing their own challenges on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder.
© A.J. Mahari 2008