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Kerry Alexander

I have two daughters with BPD. I have come to the end of my rope. For most of their lives their identification went undiagnosed and I beat myself up blaming myself. Learning the truth both vindicated me and caused me to greive. It is much like losing a loved one who has recently died but more complex. Part of me is still pining and grieving for the people I believed them to be and recognizing that they are hopelessly unhealable. I need help to unhook from them permanantly and lead a happy life despite the gaping hole created by years of dedicated motherhood full of confusing memories. Its like my memories and dreams of them are lies and I have lost years of my life berating myself. How can I move forward and not more their loss?

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