Ask the BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, questions about Borderline Personailty Disorder on her interactive microblog. I have been married to my wife for 3 years. It has been a living hell in so many ways. It is painful loving her. It is intense. She has cheated on me, hit me, rages at me often. I really love her but feel that our relationship isn't working. My question is: does my borderline wife really love me? J.B., U.S.A.
BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari Responds:
J.B., as I remind most people with questions, please know you are not alone. This is a question that I get very often from the partners, husbands and wives of those with Borderline Personality Disorder. You have identified for yourself that, at this point, your relationship is a "living hell" and "not working". Your BPD wife has as you've said, "cheated" hit you and rages at you often. None of these things you are experiencing from your BPD wife are love. You are quite right to be asking the question, "does [your] borderline wife really love [you]?
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All responses given by The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari are meant to convey general information and are not intended to be in anyway a specific recommendation or commentary on any personal life situation. Coaching is not therapy, it is also not a replacement for professional therapy. Coaching can be an effective adjunct to professional therapy for those with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or their loved ones.